The Unconscious Brahman
You get older; stuff breaks. I've got lots of stuff
breaking lately. As a consequence, I spend much time talking to
doctors. Most are pretty awful; few are good. Occasionally, you run
into a real one.
About a year ago, in preparation for another medical
procedure, I had a consultation with a new anesthesiologist. The doctor was an elderly East Indian woman; she had a small pair of rooms off
a corridor in the county pest house. She was about seventy, I'd guess. In
the Indian fashion of the aged, she wore no makeup or jewelry and kept her
long, ice-blue hair in a braid. She wore hospital greens with a
colorful cloth belt tied at the waist and a lab coat over it all. Her
office had a Steel Case desk and two chairs and was unadorned, excepting for a small
statuette of the elephant god on the credenza behind her desk.
The doctor smiled at me through a set of old-but-sturdy
teeth.
"Tell me all about yourself" she said--an odd request from a specialist at a county hospital, certainly.
So we spent about an hour discussing my education, her education, why Catholics drink more than Anglicans, eastern-versus-western faiths, illness-as-metaphor, the ways New York winters can shorten your life, why Osteopaths make better diagnosticians than MD's and how hospital food is invariably shit.
"Tell me all about yourself" she said--an odd request from a specialist at a county hospital, certainly.
So we spent about an hour discussing my education, her education, why Catholics drink more than Anglicans, eastern-versus-western faiths, illness-as-metaphor, the ways New York winters can shorten your life, why Osteopaths make better diagnosticians than MD's and how hospital food is invariably shit.
We finally arrived at the subject of my various
illnesses. The old woman read my chart to me. In a brief year, I'd
gone from a life of excellent health to renal disease, ulcerative colitis,
asthma, uncontrollable hypertension and an enlarged heart. Not only that,
but I'd presented these symptoms of auto-immune disease a full decade later
than most cases ever do. "You are either a very backward young man
or a very precocious old one..." she said.
"You're not in love, are you?" she asked.
"No."
"No."
"And you have no children?"
"None that I'm aware of."
"So..." she said, "What is your explanation
for this seemingly spontaneous appearance of such life-threatening
illness?" Shit--she really expected me to answer her.
"Well, " I began, "I think it has to do
with aging--or the fact that I don't seem to--on the outside at least. I
have few responsibilities, other than to myself... If I had to,
I suppose I'd say I was given this to humble me--as sort of a
reminder of my own mortality".
The old lady nodded. "You would make a good Hindu" she said quietly.
"Well," I said, "You'd know better than me that one cannot become a Hindu, one must be born to it."
"Ah yes," she sighed, "But a smart fellow like you would know that every Hindu hopes to become a Brahman...Yes?" I agreed.
She continued: "And you certainly don't have to be Hindu to become a Brahman, do you? Who can tell? Perhaps you're already a Brahman and don't know it..."
What could I say?
"Well," I replied, "Perhaps you're already a Brahman and do."
The old lady nodded. "You would make a good Hindu" she said quietly.
"Well," I said, "You'd know better than me that one cannot become a Hindu, one must be born to it."
"Ah yes," she sighed, "But a smart fellow like you would know that every Hindu hopes to become a Brahman...Yes?" I agreed.
She continued: "And you certainly don't have to be Hindu to become a Brahman, do you? Who can tell? Perhaps you're already a Brahman and don't know it..."
What could I say?
"Well," I replied, "Perhaps you're already a Brahman and do."
The old
doctor laughed like a girl. "Oh--you are such a devil!"
she smirked, "How you flatter an old woman!"
It was an
enjoyable conversation. In surgery the next day, the old
Brahman doped the hell out of me. It was great--I
was never in my life so unconscious. I'm still grateful.